How to Flirt with a Girl
Let’s talk about how to flirt with a girl. When you’re first starting out, flirting can be a bit intimidating, but with a bit of practice, it’s really quite fun.
Before we move on, though, I wand to make something clear. When you flirt, it should be enjoyable. Don’t take it to seriously and don’t yell out creepy things to the girl since that’s just not fun. That’s just a waste of time that won’t get you anything.
Remember that flirting should communicate two things. First it will show a sexual interest in her. Plus it should also leave the girl feeling uplifted and better about herself.
This is how you should flirt with a woman:
Now the first part is to express to her that you are interested in her. The reason behind this is that it lets her know that you want to be more than friends without being blunt about it. The most way to get this point across to her is to tell her that she is sexy. Not nice. Not adorable. Just sexy!
You can just come out of nowhere though and tell her that she’s sexy. If you do that, you’ll just become one of those drunk idiots she always complains about at bars. This is where the second part of flirting becomes important.
Make sure that flirting becomes something that the woman likes. You just can’t guess how a woman is feeling at any given minute or how she will react to any flirting without stopping to chat with her first. You need her to contribute something to the conversation. Get her to share with you what she thinks about something. Then take that as an opening to flirt with her.
Here is an example of what you can follow on how to flirt with a girl. If she just finished studying in France, ask her to tell you something in French. Then say something like, “Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore. It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.”
You see? I just told her that she’s sexy and I got her to contribute something to the interaction.
Now she has the chance to flirt back. She could drive me nuts by whispering to me in French all night or anything else for that matter. That’s just how simple it can be.
Another tip is to try using the power of pushing and pulling. First you say something that sounds mildly insulting. Then you turn it around by complimenting her. This is great for keeping that emotional suspense that keeps you from looking boring.
Now let’s have a closer look at that last example.
“Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore.” — This is the initial push. It comes across a bit like an insult.
“It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.” — This is to second part, the pull. You take the primary rejection and flip in around into a compliment.
This is how you flirt with a woman. It’s not very hard, though it might take a bit of practice to turn it into a habit. The benefits of learning this is going to be more than worth it for you. So get out there and meet some women.
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