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Love Horses, Create a Profile and Start Dating Online

admin — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 23:01:20 +0000

Online dating has reached such levels of recognition that it is now becoming more satisfactory than it used to. In truth, thanks to the countless stories about successful relations that started as an internet partnership, folk are turning to this alternative way of looking out for a partner. Whether you’re brand-new to online dating, or if you’ve been doing it for years, The key ingredient to a successful match is your profile. Online, you are what your profile announces. The 1st way to make a stand out profile is to come up with a familiar profile title and screen name. This is generally what folk see first. So put, your focus into a attention grabber. So that you can get that perfect horse loving match. However, elude being a copy pussy.

I have found the best site to match people up with others that have a similar love for horseshorse dating

Instead, be original. This may also serve you very well in the long run.

If you show something of the genuine you, then there’s no need to pretend at any time in the relationship. Before writing that title, think hard and long about how you perceive yourself and how your mates see you. Try and remember what they assert are your best qualities.

Select the ones you agree with, and then write them down. Remember not to ramble continuously. As for your screen name, the same applies. It can take you some time, but in the end it’ll all be worth it if you truly desire a match. Whether to put a photograph or not? That is the question. Some people tend not to be comfortable with putting their footage on the Internet. The explanation is this : it should not matter what I look like, people should like me for who I am. That is well and good. However, online dating web sites testify to the proven fact that folks who include a flattering photograph in their profiles get replies eight times more than those that don’t.

If you need to get more replies, then have a picture taken from your most flattering angle and include it in your profile.

Emphasise your unique traits. What makes you different? Help the other person understand you a little bit. Contribute detail to the point of avoiding obscurity. It is fine for you to give some private information but desist from being too private. It is not necessarily the greatest idea to start spewing all of the issues and problems that you have been dealing with. Make your expectancies clear. That is just perfect? Is this merely a one night stand or something more secure? Mention what the other person can expect from you too. Talk about your hobbies and things that you want to do with your other half.

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Some Ideas On Dating Online And Offline

admin — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 23:01:19 +0000

Here are some tips on researching online and offline dating:

- You have to give the impression that you are positive, affluent, powerful, (and tender in private with her). If you don’t have these characteristics, fake them. Women need to see potential, and the origin of the word potential is the Latin ‘potentia’, meaning power.

– Most crucial: You must not embarrass your escort in public. Women hate to be the centre of attention for the wrong reasons. If you’re play-acting like a little boy or an obnoxious brute you’re using up your credit every second that ticks by.

– Social skills: A man should ideally be gregarious, with a coterie of jovial acquaintances. He ought be able to hold learned discussions on a wide variety of subjects. A man should be observant. He ought to notice when a woman has modified her appearance. He should notice when she is distressed. When called for he should not stay silent, but offer compliments or sympathy. He should, however, also be aware that no knight ever won a fair maiden by being servile. You’re not obliged to tolerate unreasonable behaviour. Don’t take women’s ‘crises’ too seriously. They certainly don’t. One day all is lost, the next day all is well. A strong man holds it all in. A strong woman (or a nutcase!) explodes. Regularly.

– A terrible habit: smoking. If you smoke, you’re cutting yourself off from the company of legions of women. I know the weed is deucedly difficult to kick. The brain craves it. But many women won’t go out with you if you smoke. Apart from the burden on your health, it causes your hair and clothes to smell terrible, and your mouth to taste like an ashtray. Give the filthy habit up, and spend the money you save turning yourself out nicely.

– Don’t over-think it. We are drawn to a certain type, with whom we can make a better baby; more hardy, fitter, brighter, better adjusted to its environs. Other types just don’t click with us, ‘though we can acknowledge intellectually they are attractive. It’s a heart thing, a guts thing, and parts lower down. The head merely gives its acquiescence to a decision already made.

– Professional online dating sites are a better bet. Better yet is a specialist one. You think you’re open to all offers. In fact, in the back of your mind, you have a very specific set of criteria. Bring them to the foreground. Do you like slim or plump, tall or short, blonde or brunette, college-educated or not, extraverted or introvert? It’s smart also to go for people who are of the same faith as you. You might think it’s not crucial now, but when her kinfolk start getting involved in your kid’s rearing, it will matter a very great deal.

– Women want you to like and admire and cherish them. Casanova was successful with women not because he was handsome or exuberant (he was rather plain in looks), but because he truly appreciated them. The archetypical latin lover is very thoughtful and complimentary to his quarry, and treats her like a princess, a donna. He says she is the most gorgeous woman in the world, and means it. Oh, she laughs at this, but see how she shines too. Most men treat women like an alien specie, or objects to be acquired, as s-x toys, or as sullen disordered nuisances. A man that accepts a woman precisely as she is, with authentic admiration, can have any woman he wants.

– Conspicuous consumption shows that you are not tight with your money. Show this by spending some on her, or giving her some! Don’t be a sap, however; if the chemistry ain’t there, on BOTH sides, move on. You can’t pester or bribe a woman into loving you, ‘though they may be reluctant to reject a ’sugar daddy’ entirely. When true love strikes, you’ll both know it; accept no substitute!

I hope these few basic tips will be of some use to you in finding a nice girl via dating online or offline.

About the author: Nicky Svengali is an author for dating service and personal growth internet sites in London, Great Britain.

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Marriage for Black woman -?

admin — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 00:50:35 +0000

I will be 36 yrs old soon – I am African American/independent/I've been told I am a very attractive woman/Have my own "stuff"/no kids/good job. Problem is that I worry sometimes that I will never marry; I am trying desperately not to panic! But it is hard as heck sometimes!!!! I've done alittle online dating for the last 5 years – they've mainly all been jerks – I mean really disrespectful jerks!! I don't particularly want kids so that's not an issue. And don't get me started on how it feels to see some out of shape, poor, uneducated mother of TEN get married to prince charming! Just keepin it real! What is so perplexing to me is that I hear people say all the time that it will happen when I "least expect it", but I don't know how to NOT expect it. The marriage rate for Blacks is terrible!! Statically, my chances would be better if I were white woman. I guess my question is – has anyone ever felt this way?
please don't misunderstnd. I am not being judgmental to other less fortunate women. But we are (I was) taught to keep yourself up, have something going for yourself, be an asset to him not a liabilty. It is amazing to see someone who won't even comb her hair half right with a good man. ….AND just FYI, COLOR IS an issue. If you can't understand this now, no disrespect, but you probably never will

Can I answer? I know you are asking the ladies but as a man I would like to add. The answers you have been receiving are all good. But believe it or not some black men have a hard time as well. I will use myself as an example. Before I got married, I was single for a long time. I have an education, and dated women of all shapes, sizes, & color. I am not a bad looking dude (lol) but I had been told by black women that I was "too nice", "I wasn't their type". One woman I dated told me I wasn't her type and come to find out she like men what most considered "thugish". This woman had an education. So, I continue to search (yes I searched) and I found a wonderful black woman who was right under my nose all a long. She was a girl I grew up with in my hometown. I used to have a crush on her in the 3rd grade but as time went along we only spoke to each other throughout school. We both went to different colleges and 3 years after graduating from college somehow we ended up together.

As a man, The first thing we look at are looks (honestly). But if that woman comes off stuck up, nasty attitude and selfish, most of us step regardless how beautiful your face is or how nice your shape. Some men (mainly the ones whose about something) wants someone they can grow with, mentally, emotionally, financially and spiritually. I personally like independent women because I want to know if times get tough (if I lose my job, become ill) this woman can handle things. In my opinion, if a man has a problem with independent women they are lacking something in their life and most of the time it is being insecure. As I read the responses you have received so far, one poster said she had to evaluate herself. Have you tried that? I don't know and please don't get offender of what I am about to say, But you appeared to get angry in your additional post when you said the person will never understand that color matters. I thinking that the person only gave their personal opinion and you appeared upset. I am not coming down on you but look at the way you posted that. I also understand what you are saying that you see men with women with out of shape bodies, 10 kids etc. but fell to realize that that same woman may have some characteristics that makes that man happy. Again, looks are not everything when someone looks for a lifetime partner. If I had the chance to chose a woman who looks like Halle Berry with a jacked up attitude (not saying Halle has a jacked up attitude) and a woman who shape wasn't as nice as Halle, or face wasn't as beautiful as Halle but who was caring, understanding, independent, ambitious, respectful to herself and others and love me for who I was, Halle look-a-like with the jacked up attitude will be gone. My suggestion, ask someone to give you an HONEST opinion about you. Tell them don't sugar things up but be HONEST. Someone you can trust to be honest and listen to the outcome. I hope you didn't get offended at anything I said. It is all about learning from each other and being HONEST. Take care my sista and I hope that man comes into your life.

I must add that this is a good discussion because many women of all races and some men feel the same way you do.

How do you warn someone online you don’t know not to date this person? Race question kinda.?

admin — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 03:26:16 +0000

I was on youtube and came across and site that showed the beauty of African American women throughout the state. I left a comment about how diverse we are, and come in many features that are common in Africa without having a white parent or past family member who happen to be white. You get the picture.

I then went on to tell them about how I look…yes we were having our moment in the comment section : p

I said I have freckles on my tongue….ok not from the Africa race.
My nose is kinda Narrow
And I have large eyes

And I went on from there.

So three days later I get a e-mail in my youtube mail section and open it.

The letter came from a asian guy around my age (in the 20’s)
And I couldn’t believe it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He told me that me and other Afican Americans lucked out due to slavery. That the real pure blooded African has a very wide and huge nose, extremely dark, have ape like feet and are always fat no matter how they eat, and tiny eyes………………then blocked me!!

When I went to his page I saw that he had a thing for African American girls, all his youtube videos are on black girls and even poems about us ect…………yet he puts down Africa???

My friend is African and people think that she is Iran when she is African, Africans don’t come in one look!!

I did noticed he had a friend in his buddy list, a black girl and I wrote and told her everything and to leave him!!

Then she writes that I haveissues with asians : O and that I need to wake up because its 2008 and love comes in all shades………….

Should I leave this off? And let her find out forherself?

What should I do?

You already warned her…. let her find out for herself. You should sent me the link to this video and I’ll check it out. My youtube profile is linked on my Yahoo Answer’s profile.

Marriage for Black woman- Starting to become alittle concerned……..?

admin — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 03:41:17 +0000

I will be 36 yrs old soon – I am African American/independent/I've been told I am a very attractive woman/Have my own "stuff"/no kids/good job.
Problem is that I worry sometimes that I will never marry; I am trying desperately not to panic! But it is hard as heck sometimes!!!!
I've done alittle online dating for the last 5 years – they've mainly all been jerks – I mean really disrespectful jerks!! I don't particularly want kids so that's not an issue. And don't get me started on how it feels to see some out of shape, poor, uneducated mother of TEN get married to prince charming! Just keepin it real!
What is so perplexing to me is that I hear people say all the time that it will happen when I "least expect it", but I don't know how to NOT expect it. The marriage rate for Blacks is terrible!! Statically, my chances would be better if I were white woman. I guess my question is – has anyone ever felt this way?
please don't misunderstnd. I am not being judgmental to other less fortunate women. But we are (I was) taught to keep yourself up, have something going for yourself, be an asset to him not a liabilty. It is amazing to see someone who won't even comb her hair half right with a good man. ….AND just FYI, COLOR IS an issue. If you can't understand this now, no disrespect, but you probably never will.

Well, I guess that you want to get married. But, really the best advice I can give you is to just live your life fully right now. Enjoy life in whatever you do at the time and moment. Yes, I've felt this way too – I'm not married – but I've never really had the urge to be married. I just enjoy my self in the time and moment of now.

OMG! What should I do with this man?! ?

admin — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:55:28 +0000

He 49 divorced for 16 yrs, African American Leo. Met online – he’s asked me out 1st. Dating now 3 months, sex didn’t happen until after 1 month – yes it’s great. I actually wouldn’t be opposed to marrying this man one day. He treats me very well, very loving, gentle, patient, very responsive to my needs, he reassures me that I’m doing “everything right” in our relationship, but when his father passed away he’s totally shutting down, he doesn’t open up as well as I would like – I talked to him a week ago on the phone, told him that I care about him and that I’m here if he needs me – he says to give him time to get over this and he’ll be back to normal, says his phone is giving him problems and that’s why he hadn’t called earlier. I can understand he needs his space but what pisses me off is that he is still logging on the dating site every damn day. He said it helps him get new clients but that he would cancel his membership when it expired – then he let it auto-renew. Even during our days of wonderful dating and amazing sex he was logging on everyday. I was cool with it at 1st but now it’s just hurting me. If he is so torn up about his dad, why the hell is he logging on everyday instead of calling me to just say hello? I’m doing “operation no-contact” to make him miss me and get him back. Someone suggested mailing him a short sympathy note saying hi. I just don’t know if I should do that or just do absolutely nothing until he calls again. It’s just so hard not hearing from him. What is going on with him?
FYI – I am freely giving him all the space he needs. I just have a problem with him supposedly grieving but still logging on every day. If he can log on he can send a small text saying "Hey Babe – I'm still alive!"

it’s very personal, that he may not want to share.. His dad just passed away, how insensative you are….even after 15 years my husband did not know how to respond to me when my dad passed away…..you just keep being selfish…it will get you no where….

African American Travel: Cross Country: Part 1

admin — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:05:59 +0000

The 1st half of the drive from Phoenix to New England. With a little planning you can have a successful cross country trip!

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How To Marry A Man in 30 days!

admin — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:24:17 +0000

This amazing video gets you started with facts, truths and hard realities. By the time it is over, you are equipped with some of the most powerful tools you can find for getting the mate you want.

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OMG – I don’t know what to do with this man! ?

admin — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 07:32:32 +0000

He 49, African American Leo. Met online – he’s asked me out 1st. Dating now 3 months, sex didn’t happen until after 1 month – yes it’s great. He treats me very well, very loving, gentle, patient, very responsive to my needs, but when his father passes away he’s totally shutting down – I talked to him a week ago on the phone, told him that I care about him and that I’m here if he needs me – he says to give him time to get over this and he’ll be back to normal, says his phone is giving him problems and that’s why he hadn’t called earlier. I can understand he needs his space but what pisses me off is that he is still logging on the dating site every damn day. He said he would cancel his membership when it expired – then he let it auto-renew. Even during our days of wonderful dating and amazing sex he was logging on everyday. I was cool with it at 1st but now it’s just hurting me. If he is so torn up about his dad, why the hell is he logging on everyday instead of calling me to just say hello? I’m doing “operation no-contact” to make him miss me and get him back. Someone suggested mailing him a short sympathy note saying hi. I just don’t know if I should do that or just do absolutely nothing until he calls again. It’s just so hard not hearing from him. What is going on with him?

It sounds like he is not ready for a commitment. Sure, he is grieving over his father. But that is a separate issue. If he is still going to the dating site, that means he is still looking for someone. Just have a very honest conversation with him. Tell him you get the feeling he is distancing himself from you and ask if he is looking to build a relationship with you or just date and wants to be free to date others as well. While this may be a painful conversation, knowing the truth now is best. If he is The One, it will work out. If not, then that frees you to go look for Mr. Right.