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Instead, be original. This may also serve you very well in the long run.

If you show something of the genuine you, then there’s no need to pretend at any time in the relationship. Before writing that title, think hard and long about how you perceive yourself and how your mates see you. Try and remember what they assert are your best qualities.

Select the ones you agree with, and then write them down. Remember not to ramble continuously. As for your screen name, the same applies. It can take you some time, but in the end it’ll all be worth it if you truly desire a match. Whether to put a photograph or not? That is the question. Some people tend not to be comfortable with putting their footage on the Internet. The explanation is this : it should not matter what I look like, people should like me for who I am. That is well and good. However, online dating web sites testify to the proven fact that folks who include a flattering photograph in their profiles get replies eight times more than those that don’t.

If you need to get more replies, then have a picture taken from your most flattering angle and include it in your profile.

Emphasise your unique traits. What makes you different? Help the other person understand you a little bit. Contribute detail to the point of avoiding obscurity. It is fine for you to give some private information but desist from being too private. It is not necessarily the greatest idea to start spewing all of the issues and problems that you have been dealing with. Make your expectancies clear. That is just perfect? Is this merely a one night stand or something more secure? Mention what the other person can expect from you too. Talk about your hobbies and things that you want to do with your other half.

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- You have to give the impression that you are positive, affluent, powerful, (and tender in private with her). If you don’t have these characteristics, fake them. Women need to see potential, and the origin of the word potential is the Latin ‘potentia’, meaning power.

– Most crucial: You must not embarrass your escort in public. Women hate to be the centre of attention for the wrong reasons. If you’re play-acting like a little boy or an obnoxious brute you’re using up your credit every second that ticks by.

– Social skills: A man should ideally be gregarious, with a coterie of jovial acquaintances. He ought be able to hold learned discussions on a wide variety of subjects. A man should be observant. He ought to notice when a woman has modified her appearance. He should notice when she is distressed. When called for he should not stay silent, but offer compliments or sympathy. He should, however, also be aware that no knight ever won a fair maiden by being servile. You’re not obliged to tolerate unreasonable behaviour. Don’t take women’s ‘crises’ too seriously. They certainly don’t. One day all is lost, the next day all is well. A strong man holds it all in. A strong woman (or a nutcase!) explodes. Regularly.

– A terrible habit: smoking. If you smoke, you’re cutting yourself off from the company of legions of women. I know the weed is deucedly difficult to kick. The brain craves it. But many women won’t go out with you if you smoke. Apart from the burden on your health, it causes your hair and clothes to smell terrible, and your mouth to taste like an ashtray. Give the filthy habit up, and spend the money you save turning yourself out nicely.

– Don’t over-think it. We are drawn to a certain type, with whom we can make a better baby; more hardy, fitter, brighter, better adjusted to its environs. Other types just don’t click with us, ‘though we can acknowledge intellectually they are attractive. It’s a heart thing, a guts thing, and parts lower down. The head merely gives its acquiescence to a decision already made.

– Professional online dating sites are a better bet. Better yet is a specialist one. You think you’re open to all offers. In fact, in the back of your mind, you have a very specific set of criteria. Bring them to the foreground. Do you like slim or plump, tall or short, blonde or brunette, college-educated or not, extraverted or introvert? It’s smart also to go for people who are of the same faith as you. You might think it’s not crucial now, but when her kinfolk start getting involved in your kid’s rearing, it will matter a very great deal.

– Women want you to like and admire and cherish them. Casanova was successful with women not because he was handsome or exuberant (he was rather plain in looks), but because he truly appreciated them. The archetypical latin lover is very thoughtful and complimentary to his quarry, and treats her like a princess, a donna. He says she is the most gorgeous woman in the world, and means it. Oh, she laughs at this, but see how she shines too. Most men treat women like an alien specie, or objects to be acquired, as s-x toys, or as sullen disordered nuisances. A man that accepts a woman precisely as she is, with authentic admiration, can have any woman he wants.

– Conspicuous consumption shows that you are not tight with your money. Show this by spending some on her, or giving her some! Don’t be a sap, however; if the chemistry ain’t there, on BOTH sides, move on. You can’t pester or bribe a woman into loving you, ‘though they may be reluctant to reject a ’sugar daddy’ entirely. When true love strikes, you’ll both know it; accept no substitute!

I hope these few basic tips will be of some use to you in finding a nice girl via dating online or offline.

About the author: Nicky Svengali is an author for dating service and personal growth internet sites in London, Great Britain.

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When you find out that you have a profitable niche market, don’t you want to know how to be more relatable so that you can form a better ‘bond’ with them?

Of course you do because if your niche can sense that you are ‘one of them’ your sales conversion will increase. So a great strategy for you is to be relatable to your customers and find out what goes through their minds.

It is a good idea to hang out with them in online forums, message boards, blogs, etc., on your particular niche and get a ‘feel’ about their thinking patterns.

Think about it; if your customers sense that you are their friend that truly understands their deepest fears and desires, how much more effective will your messages be to your niche?

If you adapt and cater to your niche’s actual wants rather than what you think they want, I guarantee your success with your niche will be dramatically increased.

This gives you more trust and relation with you customers. So, now that you know why it’s important to truly know about your customers, here are five basic questions you must answer about your niche.

1. What frightens them?

2. Who and what makes them furious?

3. What frustrates them?

4. How do your customers talk to each other?

5. What keeps them tossing and turning in bed and keeping them up?

Let’s make up a hypothetical target audience…

It may be this lonely group of males that is frightened of being virgins their entire lives, and think of resorting to becoming monks at the Shaolin Temple so they have an excuse for their failure with women.

Maybe you’ve narrowed it down even further and found out that they are furious about girls laughing at their pathetic, flabby bodies. This in turn frustrates them that they are labeled as ‘runts.’

Then you found a forum where they hang out and find out that they all talk like Andy Stitzer from that wonderful movie 40 Year Old Virgin.

And finally you’ve found out that they stay up all night because their sexual frustration is built up to a peak. So they lock their doors, get some lotion, and stay up all night surfing the internet for some…video games! (what else relieves more tension than pounding at a video game control pad?)

When you found out this much information about a target audience, wouldn’t it be MUCH easier to sell the product that can ‘instantly’ solve their problems? In this case, wimpy men that is desperate to find an easy way to approach women. (By the way, I’ve addressed the 5 questions in the bold words above)

You can have book sets, seminars, and coaching sessions on your ‘Score Tonight’ Successful Dating System. Also show them that you were like ‘one of them’ and after using this incredible system, you have so many girls on you that you have to beat them off with a stick!

Now that trust and relationship is established, give them more of what they want…fitness products! They did mention their frustrations with being runts remember? There are many other ways you can go about this, but the bottom line is to have a deeper understanding of your niche before you market to them!

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Thanks for the advice guys.

i believe online dating aside from a relationship is just as much cheating as…"real-life" dating…however, almost a year is a long time. that said, its also a long time in which the same thing could have been occuring still. true…it might be he fell even deeper in love with you and that's why the comments ceased. in which case if you ask him about it, hopefully you guys are at the stage where even if he did get offended, nothing big would come from it. afterall, trust is everything in a relationship. its not silly to ask him. be concerned, show him you're concerned. if he flilps out, thats all him. thats a red flag as well. not to be pessimistic…it is also just as like for him to have found another online profile thing that you are not aware of, like facebook of something, that he could be keeping this kind of thing going. it is a digital age and alot of stuff can be accomplished with computers.

i say ask him. if he's offended, tell him you're offended. he was wrong in what he did, and if he truely wasn't, he'll have a plausible alibi.

one thing though…if you JUST found out about it….DEFINATELY raise hell. i would. if you found out about it awhile ago…why did you wait?…….

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Are you missing out? Standing on the sidelines while everyone else is having fun? Is life passing you by? Perhaps your ego has been dented, your heart broken. You may have been hurting for some time if you have split from your partner. Young or old, it doesn’t matter the hurt and pain are just as real. If you have teenagers or older children who are going through a breakup, remember just because they are young doesn’t make the hurt any less or easier to deal with. As a parent you might find it amusing, but for your child it’s the end of the world, at least for now.

The good thing is time heals all and sooner or later we emerge from our hurt stronger, hopefully better for it. Some may come through feeling bitter, somehow we have to learn to deal with our bitterness and move on. A potential future partner can spot bitterness and is likely to run in the opposite direction. Regardless sooner or later you are going to want to start dating again; it’s a natural thing for a man or woman to seek out a mate.

In days gone by young people could go to the local dance to meet members of the opposite sex. I guess in some parts of the world you still can. With the advent of the internet we can meet people online, which is great. While meeting someone online does have its dangers in most cases it is relatively safe if you use common sense.

With dating online you can get to know a person first before you go on an actual date. During this time you should be able to judge the suitability of the other person, check them out as it were. This is great, you can establish a friendship first. So what should you do before you go on that first date, especially if you have been out of the dating scene for some time?

While this is written from a male point of view, (I guess it’s the only point of view I can come from being one!) some of this will apply to women as well. This first thing is to look in the mirror, yes look in the mirror, no not to admire your muscles but to take a good hard look at yourself. Ok what do you see? Because this is what the other person is going to see. Studies have shown that it only takes a few seconds for an opinion or attraction to form. First impressions do count. Don’t judge a book by its cover I hear you say and in many cases that’s true but we are not talking reading books here. How is your cover? What is it you are showing to the world? Are your teeth clean? Is your hair clean and tidy or if you are older do you still look like a hippie reject from the sixties. Hey it’s great to follow fashion if you are young, but nothing dates an older person like a bad or old hair style. I know some women still find mullets cute but hey it’s 2005!

Like it or not your appearance has a lot to do with making a favorable impression. You won’t attract a worthwhile partner if you can’t get passed the first hurdle. Some people, on the strength of there personality alone will make a good impression. Ask yourself are you one of those people?

Step one: Get yourself looking presentable. Join a gym; get your hair cut do whatever it takes.

The other thing I would like to discuss is Personality. When we start out on any journey, endeavour, quest call it what you like we have to start with what we have. It’s no use waiting for a man or woman to come along to change things for the better, you will be waiting a long time. Ever met people who say “Well when I meet someone special everything will change” “Once I get a boyfriend/girlfriend everything will be totally different” And I’m a fairy godmother! Oh Please! You get men and women in their late forties and fifties thinking like this. Very Sad!

You have to start with what you have. What are you like now? This takes some honesty and effort on your part. Only you can change things, you don’t have to do it overnight, but you have to start. So you have to take a look at who you are and what sort of person you are. Are you open and friendly or do you put people off by your manner? Are you shy? You might say well that’s just the way I am; you have always been that way. In that case you have to change the way you are. How do you do that? Practice, practice, and more practice. You might say I’m too shy, too slow, too fat, too bald, too whatever, too lazy. Too bad in that case! yet most of these things considered negatives can be turned around and used to your advantage, although I don’t know about being lazy. Many women and men are attracted to someone who is shy. Many of the world’s sexiest men have been bald. You have to know when to use being shy, bald, tall, short, cuddly to your advantage and that requires that you Pay Attention, but then that is a whole new subject.

If you want to succeed then “I’m too whatever” will stop you in your tracks. You have to take action. Are you going to play or take your bat and ball and go home?

Let’s Play! It will be fun!

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