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Instead, be original. This may also serve you very well in the long run.

If you show something of the genuine you, then there’s no need to pretend at any time in the relationship. Before writing that title, think hard and long about how you perceive yourself and how your mates see you. Try and remember what they assert are your best qualities.

Select the ones you agree with, and then write them down. Remember not to ramble continuously. As for your screen name, the same applies. It can take you some time, but in the end it’ll all be worth it if you truly desire a match. Whether to put a photograph or not? That is the question. Some people tend not to be comfortable with putting their footage on the Internet. The explanation is this : it should not matter what I look like, people should like me for who I am. That is well and good. However, online dating web sites testify to the proven fact that folks who include a flattering photograph in their profiles get replies eight times more than those that don’t.

If you need to get more replies, then have a picture taken from your most flattering angle and include it in your profile.

Emphasise your unique traits. What makes you different? Help the other person understand you a little bit. Contribute detail to the point of avoiding obscurity. It is fine for you to give some private information but desist from being too private. It is not necessarily the greatest idea to start spewing all of the issues and problems that you have been dealing with. Make your expectancies clear. That is just perfect? Is this merely a one night stand or something more secure? Mention what the other person can expect from you too. Talk about your hobbies and things that you want to do with your other half.

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- You have to give the impression that you are positive, affluent, powerful, (and tender in private with her). If you don’t have these characteristics, fake them. Women need to see potential, and the origin of the word potential is the Latin ‘potentia’, meaning power.

– Most crucial: You must not embarrass your escort in public. Women hate to be the centre of attention for the wrong reasons. If you’re play-acting like a little boy or an obnoxious brute you’re using up your credit every second that ticks by.

– Social skills: A man should ideally be gregarious, with a coterie of jovial acquaintances. He ought be able to hold learned discussions on a wide variety of subjects. A man should be observant. He ought to notice when a woman has modified her appearance. He should notice when she is distressed. When called for he should not stay silent, but offer compliments or sympathy. He should, however, also be aware that no knight ever won a fair maiden by being servile. You’re not obliged to tolerate unreasonable behaviour. Don’t take women’s ‘crises’ too seriously. They certainly don’t. One day all is lost, the next day all is well. A strong man holds it all in. A strong woman (or a nutcase!) explodes. Regularly.

– A terrible habit: smoking. If you smoke, you’re cutting yourself off from the company of legions of women. I know the weed is deucedly difficult to kick. The brain craves it. But many women won’t go out with you if you smoke. Apart from the burden on your health, it causes your hair and clothes to smell terrible, and your mouth to taste like an ashtray. Give the filthy habit up, and spend the money you save turning yourself out nicely.

– Don’t over-think it. We are drawn to a certain type, with whom we can make a better baby; more hardy, fitter, brighter, better adjusted to its environs. Other types just don’t click with us, ‘though we can acknowledge intellectually they are attractive. It’s a heart thing, a guts thing, and parts lower down. The head merely gives its acquiescence to a decision already made.

– Professional online dating sites are a better bet. Better yet is a specialist one. You think you’re open to all offers. In fact, in the back of your mind, you have a very specific set of criteria. Bring them to the foreground. Do you like slim or plump, tall or short, blonde or brunette, college-educated or not, extraverted or introvert? It’s smart also to go for people who are of the same faith as you. You might think it’s not crucial now, but when her kinfolk start getting involved in your kid’s rearing, it will matter a very great deal.

– Women want you to like and admire and cherish them. Casanova was successful with women not because he was handsome or exuberant (he was rather plain in looks), but because he truly appreciated them. The archetypical latin lover is very thoughtful and complimentary to his quarry, and treats her like a princess, a donna. He says she is the most gorgeous woman in the world, and means it. Oh, she laughs at this, but see how she shines too. Most men treat women like an alien specie, or objects to be acquired, as s-x toys, or as sullen disordered nuisances. A man that accepts a woman precisely as she is, with authentic admiration, can have any woman he wants.

– Conspicuous consumption shows that you are not tight with your money. Show this by spending some on her, or giving her some! Don’t be a sap, however; if the chemistry ain’t there, on BOTH sides, move on. You can’t pester or bribe a woman into loving you, ‘though they may be reluctant to reject a ’sugar daddy’ entirely. When true love strikes, you’ll both know it; accept no substitute!

I hope these few basic tips will be of some use to you in finding a nice girl via dating online or offline.

About the author: Nicky Svengali is an author for dating service and personal growth internet sites in London, Great Britain.

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In a recent interview on British TV, Chancellor Gordon Brown called on households to do more to cut greenhouse gases, in effect, by making homes better insulated and more fuel-efficient. The climate change bill ambitiously seeks to cut emissions by 60% by the year 2050. Is this viable in today’s “me” society? Or over time will we slowly turn into a “them” society? Is this compatible with capitalism? And just how easy is it to turn an existing house into a green one? Guy Alexander Bell, editor of the online magazine “Never Paint Again” suggests some things we could to make our home, and our lifestyle within it, more green…

With more “green” legislation coming into building design and construction, more and more houses and commercial buildings are being built with “green” credentials. Things such as solar panels, better insulation, timber from sustainable sources, are just a few of the latest trends in building, but what about existing and older buildings? In this article we look at various steps that the average person can take in order to make their older house a bit more environmentally friendly for future generations.

How can a hundred year old house be green, or made to be green?

Putting aside the notion of actually painting it green (Doh!) and embracing the literal sense, what can be done for old houses? If we consider VERY old house, dating back to maybe 1600, it could be argued that these houses were far more green than modern ones, or even ones built over the past 100 years, but why is that?

When a house was built 400 years ago, it was built with whatever was around (in the literal sense) at the time. So if it was being built near a quarry, it would be made of local stone. If there were reed beds or hay etc nearby, it would have a thatched roof, making use of crops that would have otherwise been burnt or thrown away. If it was near the sea, many of the timbers would be recycled from old ships or boats, and in fact many buildings in established seaside locations in and around the British isles have some surprises in their lofts when you look! Many an old ships mast was made into a staircase, and timbers were used in the roof and for lintels above doors and windows. The global transport infrastructure did not exist then. Goods were sourced locally, or at least brought by sea, river or canal, from somewhere fairly nearby.

When undertaking home improvements on a more modern house, it difficult in todays world to keep your green credentials. For example, what about all the car journeys to go and fetch the new items from the DIY shop? What about the builders turning up in their old van? For a month. (plus in some cases, the amount of methane builders’ emit! Cups of tea are very important to a builder, but not too many, and make sure no egg sandwiches and baked beans are served!)

What about the fact that the items (paint, tools, whatever you buy), have probably clocked up loads of “carbon miles” by being shipped around the world, and sometimes from countries with very poor human right records?

That’s not very green is it?

So how can you make an old house green?

Well if the interior is concentrated on first, steps could be taken such as solar powered heating and power from rooftop or garden based wind power units. Setting them up can be expensive, but the cost is falling all the time. Make enough power, and if you have a surplus, you can sell it back to the national grid, although how long it would be before the government find a way to tax that is another matter, although inevitable, it could be argued!

If we all generated our own electric like this, the need to build new power stations would diminish. You need to take a long term view on this, and it is only the most ardent “pioneers” who are doing this at present. Also why not use solar powered lights in the garden?

Interior

You could also hang curtains made from hemp and buy some new green-friendly furniture. You could buy decent second hand curtains or even furniture from a charity shop (many sell nearly new ones at bargain prices), and from an ethical point of view, you’ve donated to a worthwhile cause. Re-use, don’t throw away, even if you can afford to buy new, do you really HAVE to?

Buy “A graded” energy efficient appliances such as dishwashers, fridges etc and these will save you money too. Take baths instead of showers. During the autumn months, install cheap and effective draught excluders to cut down on heat loss. Have double glazing fitted if you don’t have it already, although wooden double glazing is better as UPVC manufacture is perhaps not as environmentally friendly as it could be. Or if you’re rich, get a “little man” to do it (!) (The butler?)

Your plans could also include bizarre sounding ideas like chairs and sofas made from recycled bottles and cushions with recycled stuffing, deck chairs made of old milk cartons, and chairs made with removable, washable and replaceable covers. Do you really need to buy brand new furniture?

Also try and find a local workshop or skilled tradesman who could make the furniture locally, preferably from re-used wood. From experience this is harder to find depending on where you live.

If doing an extension or major refurbishment, you could also install wood floors made from reclaimed pallets; you could install long life low emission fluorescent bulbs, and install skylights roof windows or larger windows around the house to minimize daytime lighting needs. And throughout the house why not use non-toxic, water-based paints?

Very importantly, make sure your loft is well insulated. Many local councils in the UK run a “warm homes” scheme for people on low incomes. This was in fact a little known piece of government legislation that enabled this and is covered in full under the Warm Homes and Energy Conservation Act 2000. Take advantage of these. Most heat loss contrary to what “smarmy” double glazing salesmen tell you, is through the roof, not the windows!

Exterior

The exterior of the house also needs attention. Use water catchment systems like water “butts” to harvest water for watering plants etc. Make sure all your windows are in good condition and are clean to let in the most light. Make sure there are no areas where damp can get into the house. Damp can not only make your house feel colder, it can also very badly affect your health (buy to let landlords take note please).

Make sure the walls are in good condition and get them repainted regularly. One option would be to choose a professional specialist company to apply a long life exterior wallcoating. This specialist high performance paint is installed with either a spray or a roller, depending on the material used.

Not only can it cut down on spending money year after year repainting, it can also stop damp and make the inside of the house warmer due to not only cutting out wind chill, but also insulating properties too. Most of these coatings are far thicker than paint and they don’t need to be redone ever year, so that’s about 10 coats of paint at the same time, saving money and the environment in the long term, especially as many are made with natural dyes and resins in small to mid size manufacturing facilities instead of huge multinational factories belching out smoke and chemicals. The best site to find out more info about insulating exterior coatings for houses is the world renowned www.neverpaintagain.co.uk

The other benefit is that the work is done ONCE every 25 years instead of every year, thus less materials used in time, less van and lorry journeys, and less pollution. (and less money)

Do more research about how to make your house greener, get involved. There are plenty of great websites out there that can offer some valuable help and advise to start going green, and staying green, but its anyone’s guess as to whether the whole world will take note, but its worth a go.

Green lifestyle

There are other smaller things you can do to make your household use less energy and be more green. Consider a hybrid (electric) car. A combination of an electric motor and a normal one. Few cars have them (probably due to pressure from huge oil companies to buy more fuel), but one day these will probably be the norm. If the public transport system in the Uk wasn’t so awful, you could consider taking a bus or train (where they still exist), although if renovating a house, that’s going to be pretty hard, but tell that to the government!

Don’t leave your TV, stereo etc on standby. If you’re not using it, switch it off. Cup of tea? Don’t fill the kettle up for one cup, you’re throwing money away. Off on a plane? With cheap flights it’s tempting but think what you are doing to the planet. Why not holiday in the UK instead. (no, don’t laugh!)

Can we move to a society where we can all “carbon offset” anything we do that uses energy? Carbon offsetting is whereby if you chop down 10 trees to build a house made of wood, then you replant 10 trees (or even more) to “offset” what you’ve done. A very brave vision indeed, although if society will change for the better, only time will tell. With summer around the corner, traditionally the busiest time in the UK for home improvement, just stop and think for a minute about what you’re doing!

Unless you’re mega rich, do you REALLY need that outside spa? Do you REALLY need to buy brand new chain store furniture? And why put a finish outside that you have to repaint every 2 years or so? Whats the point? Evidence from various sources, and from my own analysis, suggest that the housing market in the UK maybe up for a sharp drop in 2008.

As being “green” and environmentally sound is becoming far more popular as people become aware of what they are doing to the planet, a “green” house, or at least a house that is energy efficient, coupled with one that is in good repair and visually appealing, will be easier to sell, and cheaper to maintain in the long term and will provide instant street cred, with the advantage of helping to save our planet.

So what’s stopping you becoming green now?

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What to look for in an Internet dating site.

With so many options, how do I know which is the best Internet
dating site?

Online dating has grown and grown to become one of the most
popular activities on the Internet and because of this there are
an increasing number of sites related to the subject. Whatever
your preference there’s a very good chance that there’s more
than one Internet dating site that caters for your needs. Pet
lovers have several sites where they can meet like-minded
individuals who also love to share their house and their lives
with animals. A good Internet dating site for you might not be a
good Internet dating site for somebody else, so the answer to
this question is entirely individual.

The first decision when picking an Internet dating site.

You should decide if there is one factor that is really
important to you when looking for a potential date, and if you
can think of something then why not search the net for an
Internet dating site that is geared around this fact.
Realistically, one option for this is picking the country you
live in because while it might be fantastic to talk to someone
from the other side of the world, it’s not realistic to arrange
a first date.

Audio and video feeds.

Perhaps you want a little something extra from the Internet
dating site you select. Some newer or recently updated sites
offer both audio and visual instant messaging so you can chat
and flirt with anyone you want and see their reactions. Of
course, the video option also means you can make sure that they
look exactly how they say they look giving you the peace of mind
you need to concentrate on trying out your best flirting methods.

The Internet, and in particular an Internet dating site, means
that you can talk to someone hundreds of miles away but still
feel like you are only a few feet away. Video and audio feeds
are an excellent addition to an Internet dating site because
they not only offer you a little extra security but they also
give you the opportunity to really get to know someone and by
watching their reactions you can ascertain exactly how they feel
about the things you say.

A final word of warning when using an Internet dating site.

It’s essential that you know the difference between flirting and
teasing. Flirting is fun for both parties and is a seductive way
of attracting a potential partner but teasing can lead to
undesired effects for both parties. When you visit an Internet
dating site you have to make sure that you stick to flirting and
don’t cross the fine line into teasing.

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